Comments on: Why Your Kid Should Have No Expectation of Privacy

By: eluk<33

eluk<33 — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 20:14:27 +0000

In reply to Noneofyourbeezwax. @Noneofyourbeezwax, this is literally gonna be me help

By: Snehal

Snehal — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 04:34:49 +0000

Okay fine. I understand there are things that make parents paranoid when it comes to giving privacy to their children. But why don’t you understand privacy is not another word for doing private things or whatever they aren’t supposed to. Having some privacy to themselves is as important as sharing their things with parents.
Like most parents, mine don’t have a clear understanding of the privacy I need to have too. I’m 20 now, and I understand what I should and shouldn’t do. And trust me when you keep telling your kids not to do something, it only makes them curious again and makes them want to do it more desperately than before. And it’s not just online privacy that they need. Come on now, a child of 20 years old will want to sit alone for sometime with themselves and talk to themselves. They don’t have to always talk to parents for everything. And you are just making it worse for your daughter. You are forcing her into depression, anxiety and paranoia. And that doesn’t mean she’s doing something she shouldn’t. She just wants time to be herself and be with herself. Aghh!

By: formerkid

formerkid — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 19:25:22 +0000

Strict parents raise sneaky kids.

My parents were controlling about my online life, and the only thing that taught me was how to downlaod TOR and clear my search history, lol.

And our relationship didn’t improve from the surveillence. I didn’t tell them I was moving out until the day before I did it, and I haven’t been back home since.

Maybe you should think twice about this particular rule.

By: Noneofyourbeezwax

Noneofyourbeezwax — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 05:09:51 +0000

You’re not teaching her responsibility, you’re only teaching her how to be sneakier and to lie better. Also the most important lesson to your kid is that you can’t be trusted, so when she inevitably messes up ( because duh, kid) she will avoid you and your judgmental self at all cost.
-source: and adult that doesn’t talk to her mom anymore because she was just like you.

By: WTF

WTF — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 21:34:27 +0000

Yeah my parents never gave me any privacy… so I got married at 18 and left the CONTINENT. Now in my 30’s they are begging me to please come home and visit and i’m like FK YOU AND FK THAT! I hope you learn your lesson.

By: Me

Me — Fri, 25 Jun 2021 13:47:17 +0000

You’re crazy and I feel bad for your kids.. You have no private things you want to look up on the internet? Also, there is a privacy policy at the bottom of this page. Lolz

By: obese goldfish

obese goldfish — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 00:38:37 +0000

ALSO I BELIVE THAT I LIKE TURTLES :DDDDD

By: obese goldfish

obese goldfish — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 00:15:32 +0000

this was NOT helpful for my debate. But I won’t hate it because the comments are just so sad

By: Дилан

Дилан — Fri, 12 Feb 2021 18:57:37 +0000

You should never ever EVER do that. Kids should have some privacy ad it’s good for the development.

By: jadaexvbber

jadaexvbber — Tue, 02 Feb 2021 12:51:22 +0000

In reply to Ricardi. @Ricardi, lol

By: Guest

Guest — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 15:58:50 +0000

Wow. You’re a terribly mother and your daughter is going to hate you

By: kevin

kevin — Sun, 17 Jan 2021 18:24:34 +0000

In reply to The Judge. You should read their diaries

By: The Judge

The Judge — Sun, 10 Jan 2021 15:26:02 +0000

In reply to Jamie. His mother wrote that. LOL

By: The Judge

The Judge — Sun, 10 Jan 2021 15:23:28 +0000

You’re obese.
Your child is obese.

Good luck, psycho.

By: No One You’d Know

No One You’d Know — Sun, 10 Jan 2021 15:15:06 +0000

Not sure how old this post is but you’re a narcissistic psychopath. Glad you’re jot my mom. My mom did some crazy things regarding privacy but she later apologized. She’s an amazing mother and I love her. But you are spouting this irresponsible bile as a guide for parenting for the rest of the internet. One day in the future, you will be culpable of a crime. Privacy is a right for all humans and children are humans. You disgust me and clearly I’m not the only one.

By: Ricardi

Ricardi — Wed, 18 Mar 2020 15:29:19 +0000

If you were my mom i would kill myself

By: Kim

Kim — Wed, 18 Dec 2019 15:13:49 +0000

You make me sick

By: dan555

dan555 — Wed, 13 Nov 2019 20:18:58 +0000

This really isn’t ok. Coming from a teen with extreme diagnosed paranoia, this is possibly the most terrifying thing a parent can do. Let the kid do what they want. This is seriously going to cause trust issues in the future. I hope they don’t end up like me. I can’t trust anyone, I don’t make friends, I talk as less as possible, because I’m too scared to. A lot of my paranoia is from my family, mostly my dad constantly invading my privacy. Just look up the dangers of no privacy, doing this will cause lots of problems. I hope your child is safe and trusts you. I hope she doesn’t end up like me, and I wish her the best of luck.

By: uwu

uwu — Sat, 05 Oct 2019 07:03:05 +0000

In reply to L. ^^^this^^^

By: L

Mon, 08 Jul 2019 18:11:28 +0000

This shows a complete lack of trust for your child and they will likely either resent you for it and never trust you or others and/or become extremely anxious and afraid they’ll never have privacy. This is actually bordering abusive, barging in on a child while masturbating or changing for example can become sexual abuse, and not giving them privacy or trusting them can be traumatic for them. Please seek help. It’s obvious you feel you have the right to exert excessive control over your child because they are like property to you/ smaller and more helpless. This is not normal. It’s domineering.