Category: Heavy Handed Advice

Heavy Handed Advice is exactly what it sounds like — opinions you didn’t ask for but probably need. This is the corner of the internet where I tell you what I’d tell my best friend, which is sometimes “you’re right” and sometimes “you’re being ridiculous.”
What kind of advice is on TTB?
Life stuff. Money stuff. Relationship stuff. Parenting stuff. The kind of advice that doesn’t come with a 17-step plan or a $99 download. Just honest takes from someone who’s made every mistake worth making and lived to write about it.
Who writes the advice posts?
I do. — blogger since the AOL days, currently raising one kid and several houseplants. If I write it, I mean it.
Got a question that isn’t covered here?
If it’s the kind of question you’d ask at midnight when nobody else is awake — love, work, the weird dreams — that’s exactly what I built Elementually for. No scripts, no judgment, just answers.

  • If You See Street Characters In Big Cities, You May Want To Avoid Them. Here’s Why.

    If You See Street Characters In Big Cities, You May Want To Avoid Them. Here’s Why.

    Have you ever been to a big city — Hollywood, New York, Las Vegas — and seen those characters walking around the streets?

    You know, the knock-off Mickey and Minnie Mouse, Elmo, Show Girls, Captain America, Spider-Man? There are a ton of different ones walking around.

    If and when you see them, you might want to run the other way.

    Turns out, they aren’t just your friendly neighborhood characters there to say hi and snap a selfie.

    They want money. And, lots of it.

    If you think about it, it’s kind of a scam.

    Here’s what they do.

    They will ask you if you want a picture of them or with them. Sometimes they will just jump into your shot, photobomb style.

    Often, they will even tell you that it’s FREE to get a picture with them.

    That seems all nice and innocent.

    HOWEVER, after their face is your picture, they are going to tell you that you owe them money.

    They might call it a “Tip” for their services.

    Only, these “Tips” don’t come cheap.

    Although they told you it was FREE to get a picture with them, they will try to get you to dish out $30 or more.

    If there’s more than one of them, they EACH want that tip.

    Watch it, because they can get belligerent and aggressive if you don’t hand over the money.

    If you don’t want to cough up $30+, and you don’t want an uncomfortable scene, it’s better to just avoid them altogether.

  • This Toothpaste Dispenser Hack Is A Game Changer For Teeth Brushing Time

    This Toothpaste Dispenser Hack Is A Game Changer For Teeth Brushing Time

    Y’all. This just might be the smartest hack I’ve ever seen.

    If you have kids — or a husband — you know that the toothpaste situation is REAL.

    It is all over the counter, all over the mirror, glopped in the sink, on my son’s shirts.

    I’ve even cleaned it off the floor.

    And then, there’s the mangled tube of toothpaste. Heaven forbid we squeeze anywhere near the bottom.

    BUT, there is a hack for your toothpaste that fixes most of the toothpaste disasters.

    This hack is actually really smart, and super easy.

    Toothpaste Hack

    Get yourself an empty hand soap dispenser from the store. It doesn’t have to be fancy.

    You can find these cute plastic soap dispenser bottles from Amazon for 14 bucks.

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    Now, you’re going to unscrew the lid — that’s the hardest part.

    Next, squeeze your ENTIRE tube of toothpaste into the empty bottle. You’re going to need 2 to 3 tubes of toothpaste to fill the soap dispenser.

    Get some Listerine — or other mouthwash — and add about 2 tablespoons to the toothpaste to thin it out a little.

    Finally, get that lid and screw it back on.

    Voila. Pump it.

    Out comes a little stream of toothpaste. No mess, no fuss.

    Pro-Tip: Although you can get some really cute glass bottles, if you have kids, you probably want to stick with the plastic. It’s easy to clean, and won’t break when they, inevitably, drop the toothpaste dispenser on the floor.

  • This Giant ‘Toadzilla’ Might Just Be The World’s Biggest Toad Ever

    This Giant ‘Toadzilla’ Might Just Be The World’s Biggest Toad Ever

    There was a toad found in Australia that’s so stinkin’ big, it was dubbed “Toadzilla.”

    Now, I’m not a fan of any toad. But, make that toad an enormous monster, and I’m out.

    Clocking in at the size of a baby, Toadzilla might just set the record for the biggest toad ever found.

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    When the park ranger stumbled upon this giant creature, all she could do was gasp.

    I would have screamed, but that’s just me.

    Queensland Government Dept. Of Environment And Science

    I reached down and grabbed the cane toad and couldn’t believe how big and heavy it was. We dubbed it Toadzilla, and quickly put it into a container so we could remove it from the wild.

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    There was a reason that Toadzilla needed to be removed from its home in the national park.

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    Cane toads are actually quite bad for areas they inhabit.

    According to WFMY News 2, cane toads secret a “‘milky poison’ called bufotoxin that can cause cardiac arrest as well as psychedelic effects.”

    They also have no natural predators. So, as you can imagine, they tend to overrun the areas in which they thrive.

    Not only are they poisonous pests, these cane toads can and will eat anything it can fit into its mouth.

    That includes insects, reptiles, and small mammals.

    Can you just imagine the animals that Toadzilla could fit in her pie hole?!? Like, watch your pets!

    In case you are wondering what they did with Toadzilla, they euthanized her.

    I know, it seems a shame to euthanize a world record toad, but she had the potential to create havoc in and around her home.

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    A female cane toad like potentially Toadzilla would lay up to 35,000 eggs. So their capacity to reproduce is quite staggering. And all parts of the cane toad’s breeding cycle are poisonous to Australian native species, so prevention is a big part of how we need to manage them.

    Barry Nola, senior park ranger
  • Hershey’s Released Cadbury Rainbow Mini Eggs Just in Time for Easter

    Hershey’s Released Cadbury Rainbow Mini Eggs Just in Time for Easter

    Get ready to hop on into your nearest Target or favorite grocery store…

    Hershey’s has released new Cadbury Rainbow Mini Eggs just in time for Easter!!

    Credit: The Hershey Company

    These new Easter treats come in bright rainbow colors instead of the pastel colors you’re used to.

    Build the most colorful Easter basket in town with the new bright Cadbury Rainbow Mini Eggs in rainbow with red, orange, yellow, green, and blue! These vibrantly colored treats are made from Cadbury Milk Chocolate with a crisp sugar shell that will have you hopping to the store for more. Available for a limited time only during this season in your choice of a 7 or 8 oz. bag.

    How cute do these look in a bunny bowl for Easter?

    They’d also be perfect for decorating Easter cookies with!

    You can find the new Cadbury Rainbow Mini Eggs at Target now for $3.79 a bag here.

  • Starbucks is Teaming Up with DoorDash to Deliver Your Favorite Coffee to You Nationwide

    Starbucks is Teaming Up with DoorDash to Deliver Your Favorite Coffee to You Nationwide

    You know when you’re wanting your favorite Starbucks drink but you don’t feel like putting pants on and heading out to get one?

    Well, all of that is about to change…

    Starbucks announced that they are teaming up with DoorDash to offer coffee delivery nationwide!

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    In the press release, Starbucks announced that a new delivery service launching today in Northern California, Texas, Georgia, Florida and other select markets.

    This means, if you live in one of these areas, you can order your favorite Starbucks coffee right to your home or work as of today.

    Starbucks delivery with DoorDash will expand to additional markets over the coming months, with full nationwide availability anticipated in all 50 states by March 2023!

    “As customer behaviors evolve, we continue to innovate the Starbucks Experience to connect with them through meaningful and valuable digital experiences.   Our partnership with DoorDash allows us to provide our customers with another convenient way to enjoy Starbucks wherever they are, said Brooke O’Berry, Starbucks senior vice president of digital experiences. “Delivery continues to represent a significant growth opportunity for Starbucks, and we’re excited to reach more customers by partnering with DoorDash, a company known for their best in-class service.”  

    Starbucks press release

    What Starbucks drinks can you order through DoorDash?

    According to the press release, Starbucks will offer approximately 95% of its core menu items on DoorDash, and just as they would at Starbucks, customers can customize their orders within the DoorDash app, including the ability to choose the amount of syrup, type of milk and espresso roasts.  

    Is ordering Starbucks drinks through DoorDash safe?

    According the press release:

    Starbucks has developed packaging solutions to help ensure the quality of hot and cold menu items including stickers for beverages to avoid spilling, tamper evident packaging, and delivery-specific cup holders. 

    So, looks like getting your favorite Starbucks drink hand-delivered directly to you, just got a lot easier!!

    Want some delicious Starbucks drink ideas? Check out our Starbucks Secret Menu that is filled with hundreds of ideas!

  • Netflix Is Finally Cracking Down On Password Sharing So Get Ready to Get Your Own Account

    Netflix Is Finally Cracking Down On Password Sharing So Get Ready to Get Your Own Account

    We’ve known it’s coming, but the time is finally here.

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    Netflix is finally cracking down on password sharing, which means we’re all going to actually have to get our own accounts.

    We are no longer going to be able to share our password with anyone outside of our immediate household.

    Well, kinda.

    If you still want to share that password, there is going to be a paid option for doing just that.

    Today’s widespread account sharing (100M+ households) undermines our long-term ability to invest in and improve Netflix, as well as build our business.

    Netflix

    Now, I’m not 100% sure how it’s going to work, but get ready.

    Netflix hasn’t confirmed exactly when this paid version of passwords sharing is going to go into effect.

    Netflix

    They also haven’t told us exactly how much it’s going to cost to give someone outside of our household our Netflix password.

    But, according to Forbes, we know it “will come in later in the first quarter of this year, which would suggest you can expect them to be in place by the end of March.”

    While our terms of use limit use of Netflix to a household, we recognize this is a change for members who share their account more broadly. — As we roll out paid sharing, members in many countries will also have the option to pay extra if they want to share Netflix with people they don’t live with.

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    So, bottom line, binge watch everything on Netflix NOW. Come March, you’re gonna have to pay for it.

  • Here’s How To Make Eggless Pancakes

    Here’s How To Make Eggless Pancakes

    My kids wanted pancakes before school this morning, but my pancake recipe includes eggs. That’s why I decided it was time to make Eggless Pancakes.

    Let’s be honest, I’m not about to go spend 9 bucks on eggs just to make pancakes before school.

    So, I did the next best thing.

    I whipped together a batch of eggless pancakes!

    When I say “I whipped together,” what I really mean is I threw some stuff together and prayed it would work. LOL!

    These pancakes used what I already had on hand, were super easy to make, and the kids gobbled them up.

    What you need to make Eggless Pancakes

    • Flour
    • Sugar
    • Baking Powder
    • Milk
    • Half a ripe Banana
    • Melted Butter
    • Vanilla
    • Salt to taste

    How To Make Eggless Pancakes

    Throw the flour, the sugar, and the baking powder into a mixing bowl (dry ingredients). Roughly stir the dry ingredients together a bit.

    Mush up the banana with a fork, and add it to the dry ingredients.

    Add the milk, butter, and a pinch of salt to the bowl.

    Whisk it all together.

    If it’s too runny, add 1/4 cup more of flour.

    Give it a taste, and if you need more salt or vanilla, add a bit.

    Now, you just cook the pancake batter like normal.

    Oil your pan, and drop the batter, about a 1/4 cup at a time, into the oil.

    Let it cook until bubbly, then carefully flip the pancake.

    Cook the pancake for another minute, and then take it out of the pan.

    Top it with syrup, Nutella, applesauce, peanut butter, or whatever your chosen pancake topping might be.

    Enjoy!!

    Amanda

    Eggless Pancakes

    How to make Eggless Pancakes (homemade pancakes made without eggs)
    Prep Time 5 minutes
    Total Time 5 minutes
    Servings: 1
    Course: Breakfast Is The Most Important Meal Of The Day
    Cuisine: American
    Calories: 517

    Ingredients
      

    • 3 cups Flour plus 1/4 cup on the side
    • 2 Tablespoons Sugar
    • 1 ½ teaspoons Baking Powder
    • 2 cups Milk
    • Half a ripe Banana
    • 1 teaspoon Vanilla
    • 3 Tablespoons Melted Butter
    • Salt to taste

    Method
     

    1. Mix the dry ingredients together.
    2. Mash up the banana and add to dry ingredients.
    3. Add remaining ingredients to dry ingredients.
    4. Whisk until smooth
    5. Cook pancakes like normal.
    6. Enjoy!
  • Waffle House Is Banning All Secret Menu Hacks, Including The Viral ‘Waffle House Sandwich’

    Waffle House Is Banning All Secret Menu Hacks, Including The Viral ‘Waffle House Sandwich’

    Well, there’s finally an establishment that has had enough of the fun secret menu recipes floating around the interwebs.

    Waffle House has made it quite clear that they are not going to cater to special requests when it comes to food.

    I mean, they will let you do the normal requests — ketchup, sugar-free syrup, pickles on the side, etc.

    But, if you go in and request the viral “Waffle House Sandwich,” you’re going to be out of luck.

    What is the “Waffle House Sandwich?”

    Well, I’m not gonna lie. It sounds hella good!!

    It’s huge, and you’d probably share it with 3 other people, but it sounds amazing!!

    This viral sandwich — which is NOT on the menu — features three eggs, a variety of meats, and cheese all sandwiched between two large waffles.

    Then you top the entire thing with syrup.

    Oh. My. Gosh. Doesn’t that sound delish?!?

    BUT, you can’t get it anymore. *Sad Face*

    Waffle House is so over it. They are sick of people making TikTok subs to their menu.

    There are even some Waffle Houses that have posted signs letting patrons know that they have to stick to the menu.

    Waffle House is not playing with y’all.

    @GAFollwers

    Of course, there is a workaround. You can order everything to make the sandwich — 3 scrambled eggs with cheese, meat, 2 waffles — and put it together yourself.

    Surely, they can’t complain about that!

    What do you think of Waffle House putting an end to special requests?

  • This Grandpa Gave His Grandkids The Most Hilarious Gift and I Can’t Stop Laughing

    This Grandpa Gave His Grandkids The Most Hilarious Gift and I Can’t Stop Laughing

    And, the prize for best Christmas gift of the year goes to this grandpa.

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    Seriously. Can I claim him?

    He gave the most thoughtful, most hilarious gift to his 11 grandkids, and it has the internet all up in its feels.

    Liam Ryan spent Christmas morning handing out boxes to all of his grands — from ages 4 through 28.

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    When the kids opened the gifts, they noticed they all got the same thing —

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    CROCS!!

    Which is totally trendy and cool in itself.

    But, it’s the little extra gift that is so sweet, in the funniest way possible.

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    Liam had special charms made for the Crocs.

    You know, like those button charms that you push through the holes on top of the shoe.

    These charms were special, though. They’re one-of-a-kind (or 11 of a kind, as the case may be).

    Each charm is a picture of his face!! How cool is that??

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    The gift is even more special when you know the backstory.

    Liam’s late wife, Phyllis, was family famous for always sporting her teal Crocs at the beach.

    This gift is like a tribute to her, with a little bit of Grandpa thrown in.

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    Now, I want pictures of my grandparents on my Crocs charms!

    I want to know how he is so “up” on the trends in fashion. Kudos, Grandpa!!

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    You can see the entire TikTok Grandpa Crocs video HERE.

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  • Mtn Dew Is Releasing A Baja Blast Hot Sauce And I Need it In My Life

    Mtn Dew Is Releasing A Baja Blast Hot Sauce And I Need it In My Life

    Mtn Dew is bringing out a Baja Blast Hot Sauce just in time for National Hot Sauce Day, and I have my chips and tacos ready!!

    Mtn Dew

    First of all, there’s a National Hot Sauce Day?!? Yep. It’s January 22nd.

    I never knew this day existed, but you can BET I’ll be celebrating in style this year!!

    Second, Baja Blast Hot Sauce?!? That sounds interesting, and quite frankly, delicious!

    Mtn Dew

    This hot sauce is going to pack that punch of sweet heat that we all love.

    Mtn Dew has partnered with iBurn to release this first-ever, one of a kind Baja Blast Hot Sauce.

    Mtn Dew

    This Baja Blast Hot Sauce will bring that familiar Baja fruity taste to the table. BUT, it also has a hint of lime and a pop of yummy pepper flavor.

    The new MTN DEW Baja Blast Hot Sauce merges the iconic tropical flavor of the fan favorite MTN DEW Baja Blast with the heat from habanero peppers, green chiles and jalapeño peppers for a taste straight from Baja Island!

    Baja Blast Hot Sauce Description

    Now, there is a bit of bad news. They are only making 750 bottles. *Sad Face*

    That means you have to act fast, and have a bit of luck on your side.

    Mtn Dew

    To try your hand at landing one of these Baja Blast Hot Sauces, you can head on over to the Mtn Dew website

    Good luck. And, if you win, I fully expect an invite to dinner!