Category: Heavy Handed Advice

Heavy Handed Advice is exactly what it sounds like — opinions you didn’t ask for but probably need. This is the corner of the internet where I tell you what I’d tell my best friend, which is sometimes “you’re right” and sometimes “you’re being ridiculous.”
What kind of advice is on TTB?
Life stuff. Money stuff. Relationship stuff. Parenting stuff. The kind of advice that doesn’t come with a 17-step plan or a $99 download. Just honest takes from someone who’s made every mistake worth making and lived to write about it.
Who writes the advice posts?
I do. — blogger since the AOL days, currently raising one kid and several houseplants. If I write it, I mean it.
Got a question that isn’t covered here?
If it’s the kind of question you’d ask at midnight when nobody else is awake — love, work, the weird dreams — that’s exactly what I built Elementually for. No scripts, no judgment, just answers.

  • This Glassfrog Can Make Itself Transparent When It Sleeps And It’s The Coolest Thing Ever

    This Glassfrog Can Make Itself Transparent When It Sleeps And It’s The Coolest Thing Ever

    There is a frog that can actually make itself transparent while it sleeps, and it’s the wildest thing.

    These little dudes are called glassfrogs, and they have a very unique way of camouflaging themselves while they sleep.

    Glassfrogs can make themselves damn-near invisible while they sleep, and they do it by packing nearly all of their red blood cells into their liver!

    They snuggle right down into the lush leaves of plants, and blend almost all the way in.

    Like, seriously, you might not even know they are there!

    These glassfrogs are — by some process; we don’t know the details — filtering red blood cells out of their blood and cramming them into their livers so tightly that it should create a clot. But it doesn’t.

    Sönke Johnsen, study co-author 

    When you look at them from the top, they blend into the green plants.

    But, when you look at them from the bottom, they are almost completely transparent.

    When I was little, I always wanted the invisibility superpower, but this little guy actually does it!

    They are tiny little things — growing about 1 inch in size — and you can find them in central and south America.

    According to LiveScience, the glassfrog’s “underbellies are translucent even when the frogs are awake, allowing an observer to easily see their hearts pumping red blood throughout their bodies.”

    But, they turn from translucent to transparent when they sleep, camouflaging them from would-be predators.

    Seriously, I would love to see one of these little guys in action!

  • Baileys Now Has A S’Mores Liqueur And It Might Be My New Favorite

    Baileys Now Has A S’Mores Liqueur And It Might Be My New Favorite

    Who doesn’t like the iconic taste of S’mores?

    I mean, come on. There isn’t much better in the foodie world than the taste of chocolate, marshmallow, and graham cracker all smooshed together into one heck-of-a bite!

    Now you can get that yummy S’mores taste in a Baileys Cream Liqueur.

    Baileys by itself is a tasty treat, AMIRITE?

    But, add to it the delicious flavor of campfire S’mores, and it takes Baileys to the next level of greatness.

    Kick back and reminisce with friends or bring this delicious drink to your neighborhood party so that everyone can share and create memories, like passing the marshmallows around the fire.

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    Oh, it’s the same Baileys that we know and love, but they’ve added a special kick to make it amazing.

    Made with the unmistakable taste of Baileys Irish Cream, this delicious treat tastes like toasted marshmallows sandwiched between graham crackers and a melted chocolate finish, a sensational melt-in-your mouth drink to elevate the moment.

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    This is one liqueur that is going to be in my arsenal of tasty adult beverage treats!

    The new Baileys S’mores is actually out at this very moment.

    Look for it wherever you normally get your favorite spirits.

    If you try it, we want to know what you think!!

  • Samsung Recalls More Than 650,000 Washing Machines Because Of A Potential Fire Hazard. Here’s What We Know.

    Samsung Recalls More Than 650,000 Washing Machines Because Of A Potential Fire Hazard. Here’s What We Know.

    There has been a recall on Samsung washing machines. Read on for more information.

    I feel like I am a slave to the laundry in this house.

    There is ALWAYS a load washing, and one ready to go right behind it.

    My life is spent washing, drying, and folding, washing, drying, and folding, washing, drying, and folding.

    Can anyone relate?

    There is FINALLY an excuse to cease the production line that is laundry hell.

    Of course, that excuse comes with the news that your washer might actually catch on fire.

    Samsung has just recalled more than 650,000 machines that are capable of super speed, because they can short-circuit and overheat within the control panel — potentially being a fire hazard.

    According to 19 News out of Cleveland, Samsung has been hit with more than 50 reports of washers smoking, melting, overheating, or actually catching on fire.

    Some of these faulty washers have resulted in property damage, while other individuals have even reported that they suffered from smoke inhalation injuries.

    The model numbers involved in the recall can be seen below.

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    For more information on this recall, you can visit the Samsung website.

  • This McDonald’s Is Testing a New Drive-Thru System Where a Robot Will Hand You Your Food Order

    This McDonald’s Is Testing a New Drive-Thru System Where a Robot Will Hand You Your Food Order

    When we’re in a hurry for a fast meal, drive-thrus are quick and easy to settle our cravings.

    Courtesy of @foodiemunster

    And if you’ve ever salivated for McDonald’s french fries while driving past the smell two miles before, you may have snuck in the drive-thru so you don’t to leave the warm car for the cold outside.

    Courtesy of @foodiemunster

    While most drive-thrus are greeted with another human, this McDonald’s drive-thru is testing out a new system.

    Courtesy of @mcdonalds

    Thanks to one TikToker @foodiemunster who recorded the entire interaction, this McDonald’s drive-thru will hand over your food with a robot.

    Courtesy of @foodiemunster

    So whether you’re ordering the Big Mac with chicken nuggets or simply a large fry, your food will be pushed out slowly by a robotic machine with to-go bags with handles so you can grab and go!

    And it even looks like your food order can be punched in with a kiosk as well.

    Courtesy of @foodiemunster

    Although while there may be robots handing your to-go bag, the video looks like it still showed humans in the store making the orders that are continuously coming in.

    Courtesy of @foodiemunster

    So if you pass by this McDonald’s on your way over to grab your Happy Meal, don’t be alarmed if you see a robot rather than a person handing you your order through the drive-thru window.

  • Netflix Is Putting An End To Password Sharing In 2023

    Netflix Is Putting An End To Password Sharing In 2023

    Well, the end of an era has come.

    For years we have been passing Netflix passwords around like candy, free for all to use.

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    But, the days of free Network password sharing are about to come to an end.

    Netflix has announced that they will put an end to password sharing in 2023.

    We’ve landed on a thoughtful approach to monetize account sharing and we’ll begin rolling this out more broadly starting in early 2023.

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    Now, we aren’t exactly sure of the logistics here. I mean, are they going to look at IP addresses? Location of users?

    That would be difficult, since the phone app allows you to watch Netflix pretty much everywhere.

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    After listening to consumer feedback, we are going to offer the ability for borrowers to transfer their Netflix profile into their own account, and for sharers to manage their devices more easily and to create sub-accounts (‘extra member’), if they want to pay for family or friends. In countries with our lower-priced ad-supported plan, we expect the profile transfer option for borrowers to be especially popular.

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    It kind of all boils down to money.

    According to ComicBook.com, “Netflix loses more than $135 million a month on people sharing their accounts with viewers outside of their households.”

    That’s a hefty “ouch” in the pockets of Netflix.

    Now, the company is expecting a little push back to this policy change. People hate change — especially when they are losing something that’s been free for years.

    Consumers aren’t going to love it right out of the gate, but we need to show them why they should see value.

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    What do you think about the end of Netflix password sharing?

  • You Can Get A Mini Billiards Table For Your Cat Because, Why Not?

    You Can Get A Mini Billiards Table For Your Cat Because, Why Not?

    You can get a miniature billiards table, and it is so cute to use as a cat toy!!

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    Just imagine their little paws batting those balls around the table, trying to sink all the balls.

    Gah! Adorable, right?!?

    All you do is get a tabletop billiards table — one that has short little legs.

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    You put it on the floor, and let the cats do their thing.

    Now, don’t expect this table to stay pristine. Cats have claws, after all.

    This billiards table should be designated just for those furry little babies to play.

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    You also won’t believe how inexpensive they actually are.

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    I mean, you don’t have to get the best of the best for kitty play time. You just need a basic table and little balls.

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    They have tabletop billiards sets that go for as little as like $14!

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    Now, you can get fancy ones, that have scratching posts and cat want toy pool cues included. But, those are going to run you like $80.

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    Either way you go — inexpensive or the more fancy table — you are going to get all kinds of adorable kitty cat playtime fun.

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    You can get the inexpensive version of the Cat Billiard Table at the Amazon website.

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    They also have the fancy Cat Billiard Table, if you’d rather go that route.

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    No matter what you decide to do, I want to see pictures!!!

  • Move Over Christmas Trees, New Year’s Trees Are The Hot New Trend, And I’m Totally Down With It

    Move Over Christmas Trees, New Year’s Trees Are The Hot New Trend, And I’m Totally Down With It

    We leave our Christmas Tree up until the middle of January.

    Oh, no. It’s not for any insightful, legitimate reason. It’s simply because we are just too lazy to take it down.

    BUT, now we have an actual reason to keep our Christmas tree up and shining bright!

    The new trend is to take that Christmas Tree, and turn it into a New Year’s Tree.

    I’m 100% on board!

    How To Turn Your Christmas Tree Into A New Year’s Tree

    First, you want to take the Christmas Ornaments off the Christmas Tree.

    I know, I know. That’s the part that you loathe the most — or at least I do.

    But, it’s necessary to have a naked tree to start the transformation process.

    Okay. Now that you’ve gone through the process of stripping the Christmas off your tree, it’s time to get started.

    You’re going to want balloons of the New Year’s variety — white, gold, silver, blue, etc.

    Also gather together New Year’s Eve decorations. You know, the kind you’d find at a New Year’s Eve party.

    Now, you’re going to stick it all on the tree.

    Blow up the balloons and stick them in between the branches.

    Make the New Year’s decorations look like they are exploding out of the tree.

    You can, of course, put your own spin on it.

    Maybe start a new tradition of getting a New Year’s Eve ornament each year, and putting it on the New Year’s Tree.

    Just make it your own, and decorate it with your heart. It’s going to turn out beautiful!

  • Did You Know There Is A Proper Way To Open Champagne? Here’s How.

    Did You Know There Is A Proper Way To Open Champagne? Here’s How.

    It’s getting so close to that time when everyone gets their favorite bottle of champagne and toasts in the New Year.

    Did you know there is actually a correct way to open champagne?

    I recently had the privilege of going to a class that was all about the bubble nectar of the gods.

    There is SO much you I could tell you about the ins and outs of sparkling wine and champagne — like more than you’d ever want to know — but the IMPORTANT part I learned was how to properly open the bottle.

    I used to just rip off the top and shimmy the cork out, praying it didn’t take out someone’s eye as it popped and flew across the room.

    Turns out, I was opening the bottle of champagne all wrong.

    How To Properly Open A Bottle Of Champagne

    So, first you want to make sure the bottle has been properly chilled.

    Ideally, you are going to leave the bottle in the fridge overnight.

    If you plumb forgot to put it in the fridge, or if you are pressed for time, you can place the unopened bottle in a glass bowl that is filled with ice AND WATER.

    Slowly turn the bottle round and round in the water for about 10 minutes, and then it should be nice and cold.

    Now it’s time to open that bottle.

    First, you want to take the foil off the top of the bottle.

    Find the little tab on the foil. Pull on the tab, and it should tear around the entire bottle, and come clean off.

    Now, look for the little circular knob that’s holding that metal cage around the cork.

    While placing the thumb of your non-dominant hand on the top of the cork, turn that little tab counterclockwise 6 times. That should loosen it all the way up.

    Don’t take that cage off!

    Now, while keeping your thumb on the cork of the champagne, grab the entire bottle in your other hand.

    You want to turn THE BOTTLE of the champagne, keeping it at an angle, away from your body.

    The cork will slowly start to release from the bottle.

    Keep your thumb nice and firm on that cork.

    Slowly turn the bottle until — POP — the cork comes out without flying across the room!

    Now, pour up that champagne, and enjoy!!

  • This Christmas Day Folklore Says If We Don’t Have Snow on Christmas, We Will on Easter

    This Christmas Day Folklore Says If We Don’t Have Snow on Christmas, We Will on Easter

    Many of us dream of a white Christmas during the holiday season (I sure do), and while that dream may come as a reality for several states this year, some of us are stuck with just rain.

    And according to one of the many folklores that are written about Christmas, there’s one that talks specifically about the winter weather on the jolly holiday and what that means for the future months.

    Therefore, if you wake up on Christmas morning and notice the sheet of snow missing from the driveway, you might get your wish for snow on Easter instead!

    More specifically, weather folklores that talk about Christmas will suggest that the weather on Christmas day will be the opposite of what happens later on Easter.

    And while there are many versions of weather folklore that revolve around Christmas, this folklore is as follows: “Green Christmas, white Easter.”

    So if you see grass on the front lawn without the heavy snow, you can expect a possible snowy Easter.

    However, if it does snow on Christmas, the opposite will occur: “Christmas in snow, Easter in mud.”

    So whether you’re hoping for blankets of snow on Christmas or warm grass on Easter, depending on the weather on Christmas day, might just determine the weather for Easter too!

  • This Holiday Gift Box Is Stuffed With Mini Chocolate Bottles Filled With Your Favorite Liquor  

    This Holiday Gift Box Is Stuffed With Mini Chocolate Bottles Filled With Your Favorite Liquor  

    If there’s anything goes well with liquor on Christmas, it’s chocolate.

    Courtesy of @lorynpowell

    And if you’re currently searching for a last minute present, this holiday gift box is even better than cheese and wine. 

    Courtesy of @lorynpowell

    Featuring a selection of liquor-filled dark chocolates that are shaped like mini alcohol bottles yet stuffed with Bourbon or Vodka, each golden gift box is stacked with 64 bottles! 

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    Including eight premium liquor brands that are fan-favorites, you can count on a variety of liquor tastes ranging from to whisky, to vodka, and even champagne.

    Courtesy of @lorynpowell

    Although the way you may sip on a drink during dinner is different than how you’ll take a gup from each one of these tiny bottles!

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    Simply unwrap the individual chocolate bottles, turn each one upside, bite the bottom, and drink! 

    Courtesy of @lorynpowell

    Not to mention this holiday liquor box is not only great as a gift to give but it’s also a fun way to cheers your way into the new year with friends!

    Courtesy of eBay

    You can find the liquor-filled dark chocolate bottles on eBay this holiday season!

    Courtesy of eBay & @lorynpowell