Sixteen Things I Want My Daughter To Know Before She Turns Sixteen

Hey kiddo,

Can you believe it? 16 already! I feel like just yesterday you were asking me to help tie your shoes and now you’re getting your driver’s license! I am so proud of the person you’re becoming and I can’t wait to see all the amazing things you’ll accomplish.

Before you officially become a sweet sixteen, I wanted to remind you of a few things that have helped me in life, and I hope they’ll help you too.

1. You’re amazing, just the way you are!

Don’t let anyone else’s opinions of you change how you feel about yourself. You’re unique and special, and that’s something to be proud of. Believe in yourself and your talents, and don’t be afraid to chase your dreams.

2. Mistakes happen, it’s how we learn

It’s ok to make mistakes, that’s how we learn and grow. The most important thing is to learn from them and make better decisions in the future. So, don’t be too hard on yourself when things don’t go as planned.

3. Speak up and be heard

Your voice matters and has the power to make a difference. Don’t be afraid to speak up for what you believe in, whether it’s standing up for a friend or sharing your thoughts with others. Make sure your voice is heard.

4. Surround yourself with good people

Choose your friends wisely and surround yourself with people who lift you up, make you laugh and support you. The company you keep has a huge impact on your life, so be intentional about who you let in.

5. Take care of yourself

It’s important to take care of both your body and your mind. Make sure to exercise, eat healthy, and get enough sleep. And don’t forget to make time for yourself and the things you enjoy.

6. Start thinking about your future

It’s never too early to start thinking about your future, what you want to do, where you want to go. Pursue your passions and don’t be afraid to chase your dreams. Remember, I’ll always support you no matter what.

7. Stay true to yourself

It’s natural to want to fit in, but never compromise your beliefs or values just to do so. Stay true to yourself, and be proud of who you are.

8. Keep an open mind

Be open to new experiences, different perspectives and different people. You never know what you might learn from them.

9. Be kind

Treat others with kindness and respect. It’s important to practice empathy and always be willing to lend a helping hand.

10. Be confident

Believe in yourself and your abilities. Confidence is key to achieving your goals and making the most out of life.

11. Learn to say no

Don’t be afraid to say no to things that don’t align with your values or goals. It’s okay to set boundaries and prioritize yourself.

12. Travel and explore

Travel and explore new places, it will help you expand your horizons and get a better understanding of the world around you. It will also create memorable experiences for you.

13. Learn to manage your finances

Start learning to manage your finances early, it will serve you well in the future. Make a budget, start saving and invest in yourself.

14. Volunteer and give back

Find a cause you are passionate about and volunteer. Giving back to others will make not only a difference in their lives but also yours as well. It’s a great way to learn new skills and make a positive impact in the world.

15. Learn a new skill or hobby

Learning something new is always exciting, it’s a great way to challenge yourself, build confidence and have fun. Whether it’s learning a new language, taking up a new hobby, or joining a club, keep exploring new interests.

16. Never stop learning and growing

Life is a constant journey of learning and growth, so don’t stop just because you’ve reached a milestone birthday. Keep learning, keep growing and keep discovering new things about yourself and the world around you.

I hope these tips will serve you well in your journey of growing up, always remember that I love you, and I’m always here for you.

Love you bunches,

Mom