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What It Feels Like to Finally Be Seen

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Silence Is Loud When You’ve Been Hurt

Loving Your Job Doesn’t Matter As Much As You Think!

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Loving Your Job Doesn’t Matter As Much As You Think!

Here’s How You Can Use Your Dog’s Paw Print To Make Art

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Here’s How You Can Use Your Dog’s Paw Print To Make Art

All That Glitters Is Not Food: The Truth About Edible Glitter

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All That Glitters Is Not Food: The Truth About Edible Glitter

If you don't like peeps we cant be friends

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If You Don’t Like Peeps, We Can’t Be Friends

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

I never thought I’d make it this far.

Is it really me? Am I the magic?

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Is it really me? Am I the magic?

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Thank you for letting me turn it off

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Broccoli Knows When It’s Being Eaten

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I never planned for this…

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I mean, I don’t want to die alone

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Just freakin’ leave

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Fun fact about being choked to the point of passing out

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Strangling To Kill And Strangling For Control Are Two Different Things

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

I think I understand what I am mourning

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

To the two friends who called me today.

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I am so very sorry…

I Hate Nothing About You With Red Heart Light

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

What does it take to heal?

I’m scared of who I meet deciding they don’t like me if my looks change

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

I’m scared of who I meet deciding they don’t like me if my looks change

Brown Rope Tangled and Formed Into Heart Shape on Brown Wooden Rail

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Connecting feels so foreign

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I didn’t write this post…

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How a squat challenge is saving me

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Purity culture shame and all that

Legs on Bed

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

How do you wake up next to a new guy in the middle of night sweats?

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things Kids Do That Drive Everyone Crazy

No, I won’t be taking care of you anymore

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

Running Away Isn’t The Move Here

My Saved By the Bell Moment

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My Saved By the Bell Moment

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

Do you still think I’m pretty?

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

What if I never feel bliss again?

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Things We Do To Drive Ourselves Crazy

How am I ever going to learn to trust people at their word again?

I won $700 yesterday

Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says | Places You Wish You Were

I won $700 yesterday

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Go sit somewhere else…

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Why did I stop doing what I love?

Looking for a Friend Bear

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What if lonely isn’t a bad thing?

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Find friends that protect your peace

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I Soft-Launched My Separation via My Newsletter

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This Sangria Was So Gross

Green Leafed Plant on Sand

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It’s Hard To Give Back When You’re In Survival Mode

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Calling Women Karens Has Us Scared To Ask For What We Deserve

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GenX Women Stopped Using Their Voices

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Heavy Handed Advice | Jamie Says

Why Do We Start Friendships With Trauma Dumps?

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Do You Know Your Own Worth?

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Being An Empty Nester Has Turned Me Into The Crazy Neighborhood Lady

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I’ve Been Going Alone To Social Places And It’s Glorious

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What Hobbies Are Middle Aged Women Even Into?

Women Are So Hungry For Connection Right Now, And I Need To Know Why

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Women Are So Hungry For Connection Right Now, And I Need To Know Why

Best Friend Break Ups Suck And We Need To Talk About It

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Best Friend Break Ups Suck And We Need To Talk About It

They Stole My Voice And Used It To Train AI

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They Stole My Voice And Used It To Train AI

Step Walk Banana

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They’re Going To Complain, You Should Just Do What You Want To

Befriending Crows, Finding Joy, and What The Heck Do I Do Now?

Books That Don't Suck | Jamie Says | Writing

Befriending Crows, Finding Joy, and What The Heck Do I Do Now?

Because Yeah, I am Like, Totally The Bomb, Right? Gulp…

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Because Yeah, I am Like, Totally The Bomb, Right? Gulp…

New Study Says That Mice Are Smarter Than We Thought. Here’s What They Learned.

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New Study Says That Mice Are Smarter Than We Thought. Here’s What They Learned.

Amazon Joins Target, Walmart, and Aldi in Lowering Prices on 4,000 Grocery Items

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Amazon Joins Target, Walmart, and Aldi in Lowering Prices on 4,000 Grocery Items

Little Debbie Goes Patriotic With New Red, White & Blue Treats!

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Little Debbie Goes Patriotic With New Red, White & Blue Treats!

The FDA Just Recalled Nearly 1.9 Million Bottles of Water. Here’s What You Need to Know.

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The FDA Just Recalled Nearly 1.9 Million Bottles of Water. Here’s What You Need to Know.

This Guy Planted Thousands of Flowers That Bloomed Into A Stunning ‘Starry Night’ Garden

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This Guy Planted Thousands of Flowers That Bloomed Into A Stunning ‘Starry Night’ Garden

These Tiny Umbrellas Stick To The Back Of Your Phone To Shade Your Screen While in The Sun

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These Tiny Umbrellas Stick To The Back Of Your Phone To Shade Your Screen While in The Sun

Kit Kat Released A Pink Lemonade Flavor Just In Time For Summer

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Kit Kat Released A Pink Lemonade Flavor Just In Time For Summer

There’s A ‘King of the Hill’ Reboot and Bobby Hill is All Grown Up!

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There’s A ‘King of the Hill’ Reboot and Bobby Hill is All Grown Up!

Wendy’s Is Selling Their Jr. Bacon Cheeseburger For 1 Penny On National Hamburger Day

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Wendy’s Is Selling Their Jr. Bacon Cheeseburger For 1 Penny On National Hamburger Day

The Portal That Connects NYC To Ireland Has Officially Reopened With Some Changes Due to Inappropriate Behavior

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The Portal That Connects NYC To Ireland Has Officially Reopened With Some Changes Due to Inappropriate Behavior

This Giant Cooling Comforter Is Even Better Than Costco’s

Heavy Handed Advice | These Things Are Better Than Your Things

This Giant Cooling Comforter Is Even Better Than Costco’s

You Can Get Cooling Pillowcases That Absorb Heat to Keep Your Head Cool While You Sleep

Heavy Handed Advice | These Things Are Better Than Your Things

You Can Get Cooling Pillowcases That Absorb Heat to Keep Your Head Cool While You Sleep

Is It Bad Etiquette To Put Personal Items In A Plane’s Overhead Bin?

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Is It Bad Etiquette To Put Personal Items In A Plane’s Overhead Bin?

People Are Throwing “Bring Your Own Pool” Parties This Summer And It’s Pure Genius

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People Are Throwing “Bring Your Own Pool” Parties This Summer And It’s Pure Genius

Move Over Target, Aldi Is Lowering Prices On More Than 200 Grocery Store Items

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Move Over Target, Aldi Is Lowering Prices On More Than 200 Grocery Store Items

Here’s How To Get A Free 6-Piece Chicken Nugget From McDonald’s Tomorrow

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Here’s How To Get A Free 6-Piece Chicken Nugget From McDonald’s Tomorrow

This Quilted Bag Is Better Than Your Current Beach Bag and Comes in 20 Colors

Heavy Handed Advice | These Things Are Better Than Your Things

This Quilted Bag Is Better Than Your Current Beach Bag and Comes in 20 Colors

Get Your Wallets Ready, Target Is Lowering Their Prices On About 5,000 Basic Goods

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Get Your Wallets Ready, Target Is Lowering Their Prices On About 5,000 Basic Goods

A Rare Celestial Event Called ‘The Parade of Planets’ Is Happening Soon and You Won’t Want to Miss It

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A Rare Celestial Event Called ‘The Parade of Planets’ Is Happening Soon and You Won’t Want to Miss It

Some Frigidaire and Kenmore Electric Ranges Have Been Recalled

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Some Frigidaire and Kenmore Electric Ranges Have Been Recalled

Skinny ’90s Eyebrows Are Back and Mama Would Be Proud

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Skinny ’90s Eyebrows Are Back and Mama Would Be Proud

Some Rural Areas Could Lose Cell Service Soon. Here’s What You Need to Know!

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Some Rural Areas Could Lose Cell Service Soon. Here’s What You Need to Know!

Is A Dr. Seuss Restaurant Be Coming to Colorado? Here’s What We Know So Far!

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Is A Dr. Seuss Restaurant Be Coming to Colorado? Here’s What We Know So Far!

Apparently Gen Z Puts Their Phone On ‘Do Not Disturb’ All Day and The Reason is Pure GENIUS

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Apparently Gen Z Puts Their Phone On ‘Do Not Disturb’ All Day and The Reason is Pure GENIUS

Red Lobster Has Filed for Bankruptcy

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Red Lobster Has Filed for Bankruptcy

Here’s How You Can See May’s Full Flower Moon

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Here’s How You Can See May’s Full Flower Moon

Blue Bell Just Released Root Beer Float Ice Cream, Because Dreams Really Do Come True

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Blue Bell Just Released Root Beer Float Ice Cream, Because Dreams Really Do Come True

This Water Hammock Float Will Have You Taking Naps Poolside All Summer Long

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This Water Hammock Float Will Have You Taking Naps Poolside All Summer Long

Is Chili’s Closing All Locations? Here’s What We Know.

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Is Chili’s Closing All Locations? Here’s What We Know.

Crocs Now Has a Shoe Recycle Program and Will Even Give You a Discount on Your Next Pair

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Crocs Now Has a Shoe Recycle Program and Will Even Give You a Discount on Your Next Pair

The NFL Games Are Coming To Netflix This Christmas. Here’s Everything You Need To Know.

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The NFL Games Are Coming To Netflix This Christmas. Here’s Everything You Need To Know.

Lego Is Releasing ‘The Lord of the Rings: Barad-dûr’ Building Set Complete With The Eye of Sauron

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Lego Is Releasing ‘The Lord of the Rings: Barad-dûr’ Building Set Complete With The Eye of Sauron

Stars Wars Oreos Exist and Will Have You Choosing Between The Dark Side or Light Side

Heavy Handed Advice | These Things Are Better Than Your Things

Stars Wars Oreos Exist and Will Have You Choosing Between The Dark Side or Light Side

Welch’s Is Releasing Adult Canned Cocktails In Four Different Flavors And I Can’t Wait To Try Some

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Welch’s Is Releasing Adult Canned Cocktails In Four Different Flavors And I Can’t Wait To Try Some

McDonald’s is Releasing Grandma McFlurry That’ll Remind You of Your Childhood

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McDonald’s is Releasing Grandma McFlurry That’ll Remind You of Your Childhood

Red Lobster Has Been Quietly Closing Locations and We Are All Not Okay

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Red Lobster Has Been Quietly Closing Locations and We Are All Not Okay

This Tumbler Allows You To Enjoy Your Hot and Cold Drinks in One Container and I Need It

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This Tumbler Allows You To Enjoy Your Hot and Cold Drinks in One Container and I Need It

Krispy Kreme is Releasing Dolly Parton Donuts and We Are Here For It

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Krispy Kreme is Releasing Dolly Parton Donuts and We Are Here For It

Archaeologists in England Found an Ancient Purple Dye Once Worth More Than Gold

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Archaeologists in England Found an Ancient Purple Dye Once Worth More Than Gold

McDonald’s Plans To Add a $5 Meal Deal For Those Of Us Who Are Too Broke For Fast Food

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McDonald’s Plans To Add a $5 Meal Deal For Those Of Us Who Are Too Broke For Fast Food

It Is BOGO Day At Starbucks On Mother’s Day

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It Is BOGO Day At Starbucks On Mother’s Day

Summertime Has Officially Arrived At Starbucks With New Tumblers and Cups

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Summertime Has Officially Arrived At Starbucks With New Tumblers and Cups

There’s A Part on Your Air Fryer You Probably Need To Clean Right Now

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There’s A Part on Your Air Fryer You Probably Need To Clean Right Now

Move Over Flowers, Texas Roadhouse Roll Bouquets Are What Moms Really Want For Mother’s Day

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Move Over Flowers, Texas Roadhouse Roll Bouquets Are What Moms Really Want For Mother’s Day

You Can Now Stay In Pixar’s ‘Up’ House and It Actually Floats In The Air

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You Can Now Stay In Pixar’s ‘Up’ House and It Actually Floats In The Air

A Major Solar Storm is Coming. Here’s What We Know.

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A Major Solar Storm is Coming. Here’s What We Know.

Here’s The Best Way To View The Northern and Southern Lights

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Here’s The Best Way To View The Northern and Southern Lights

People Are Ordering Dr. Pepper with Pickles at Sonic and I Am Not Sure How to Feel

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People Are Ordering Dr. Pepper with Pickles at Sonic and I Am Not Sure How to Feel